Many times, when we are in a situation with our spouse where there's been an error, there's been a struggle, we're in conflict, or they've done something that we don't like, it's a place where we want to confront them.
One of the things I hear as soon as people discover I work with couples is, "What is the one thing I can do to make my marriage better? You have to have a magic line right? There's a pill. There has to be something."