Do you keep having the same arguments without getting anywhere? Are there fundamental beliefs that you and your spouse don’t agree on that are making it difficult to move forward? Or maybe you both know exactly how to push each others’ buttons…and do it often. Conflict in marriage is healthy…but not when you can never compromise. Let’s help you move past the fight and into the solution.

Married To A Narcissist

2020-07-14T20:19:31-06:00

Let me guess... your spouse is cold and distant. You feel like everything revolves around what your spouse wants. Your spouse may seemingly lack empathy or an awareness of how his or her reactions affect others. The list goes on and on. In fact, when you Google these things, everything you read points to the fact that your spouse is a narcissist...

SMART Contact™ While Social Distancing

2020-07-14T21:21:46-06:00

Many people have asked, “How can I practice SMART Contact while I’m social distancing?!” In this article, we’ll give you some Social-Distancing-SMART-Contact-Tips so you can have better communication, less marriage tension, and healthy boundaries (whether you’re separated OR stuck at home with your spouse).

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How To Have A Healthy Fight With Your Spouse

2020-07-14T21:33:20-06:00

It seems like the best marriages are the ones where they say, “We never fight.” Or,  that they, “Always get along and always agree.” But we’re here to say that these experiences are not healthy (and, they’re not realistic). You need to have conflict with your spouse, but in a way that DOESN’T destroy your relationship.

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How To Find A Marriage Counselor

2020-05-19T18:44:15-06:00

Why is it that when we have troubles in our marriage we automatically think, “Let’s go to marriage counseling...”  It’s the thing you do, right? I mean, it’s all you hear about from family, friends, or just society in general. We feel like it’s what we need to do if our marriage is in crisis. And, it seems to be the only option that’s there... But we want you to know that marriage counseling may not be what you truly need! We'll explain 3 things you may not know about counseling and how it works so you can decide if it’s what you should do to save your marriage. 

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Stop Your Spouse From Leaving You

2020-08-07T10:38:17-06:00

Here at Marriage Helper, we’ve worked with thousands of couples in many different marriage situations. From control issues, to affairs, to communication issues… whatever the situation may be, we’ve discovered that there are some foundational things that are happening in the majority of marriages we work with. Most of the time, there are behaviors that one spouse is doing that are working against the marriage.