I assume that you're watching this video because you're contemplating separating from your spouse. Maybe you're even in the first stages of separation and trying to figure out, “Did we make the right decision?"
No matter how much you invest, work on, and improve your marriage, no marriage is ever going to be perfect. What makes the difference is acknowledging when you mess up, realizing how you could have done it better, and fixing it going forward.
Many times, when we are in a situation with our spouse where there's been an error, there's been a struggle, we're in conflict, or they've done something that we don't like, it's a place where we want to confront them.