Why Is Marriage Disappearing?

Exploring the Causes of Marriage Decline

Marriage, once a sacred institution, is currently experiencing a significant decline on a global scale. In our latest podcast episode, titled “Exploring the Causes of Marriage Decline,” Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes, your hosts, closely examine this alarming trend. Join us as we delve into the underlying reasons behind this decline and its widespread consequences.

The decline in marriage rates is not limited to any specific region; it is a global phenomenon observed in the United States, Europe, Asia, Australia, and South America. In the United States, for instance, the 1950s witnessed a peak in marriage rates, with 14 marriages per 1,000 people. Today, that number has plummeted by half, marking a dramatic reduction.

What’s even more concerning is the transformation of the nature of marriages over the years. The commitment-based marriages of the 1950s have given way to a culture of ‘expressive individualism.’ In this new paradigm, individuals remain in a relationship only as long as it satisfies their personal happiness, reflecting the independence and self-centeredness of the ‘me generation.’

The consequences of declining marriage rates on society are profound. One of the most striking outcomes is the diminishing contact between fathers and their children post-divorce. Shockingly, within the first year of divorce, 25% of fathers lose contact with their children, and this statistic rises to a staggering 50% after ten years. This disturbing trend highlights the erosion of commitment not just toward spouses but also toward one’s own children.

However, it’s important to note that the decline in marriage is not an insurmountable problem. There is still a glimmer of hope in the form of our “Save My Marriage Program.” This program serves as a lifeline for those seeking to salvage their relationships and reestablish the foundations of family and commitment. It equips individuals with the necessary steps to understand and address the causes of marriage decline while building a strong family foundation.

Ultimately, the power to reverse this trend lies with each one of us. If we desire stability and mature relationships, we must commit to marriage and staying married. By doing so, we can create a nurturing environment for our children, enabling them to grow into responsible adults who can positively influence society. After all, marriages play a pivotal role in personal growth and the stability of societies.

In conclusion, the causes of marriage decline are multifaceted, but they are not insurmountable challenges. With commitment and dedication, we can work towards restoring the sanctity of marriage and, in the process, build stronger, more stable societies. Let’s embark on this journey together and strive for a hopeful resolution to the issue of declining marriages.