At Marriage Helper, we are experts at understanding affairs. Why? Because we understand, from research, personal experience, and experience with thousands of couples, why affairs happen, why affairs end, and how to fix a marriage affected by an affair.
You are not quite sure how you got yourself into the affair, and even less sure about how to end an affair. You love your paramour but hate the sneaking and cheating. You vacillate between ending the affair and giving yourself totally to it. You feel intense emotions for your lover, but even as you tell yourself, or your lover, that everything is going to be wonderful, deep within a small voice says that it will not be.