At Marriage Helper, we are experts at understanding affairs. Why? Because we understand, from research, personal experience, and experience with thousands of couples, why affairs happen, why affairs end, and how to fix a marriage affected by an affair.
When you and your spouse are separated it's hard to know what to do, what to say, how to act, and when to act. Don't worry, I'm going to give you five things that you can do when you are in a marriage separation that will help you starting now.
You probably never meant for it to happen. It’s not as if you went looking for a lover. However, once you fell in love with another person than your spouse, things got rather intense. I am Marriage Expert Joe Beam, and I have been where you are. I want to share with you what I learned from my own personal experience.
QUESTION: How do you focus? I find myself constantly on [...]
You are not quite sure how you got yourself into the affair, and even less sure about how to end an affair. You love your paramour but hate the sneaking and cheating. You vacillate between ending the affair and giving yourself totally to it. You feel intense emotions for your lover, but even as you tell yourself, or your lover, that everything is going to be wonderful, deep within a small voice says that it will not be.
You suspected it long before you knew it for sure.Your spouse changed but you couldn’t quite explain the changes in a way that seemed to make sense to anyone else. You thought that you were imagining things, being insecure in thinking your spouse had someone else.
How can the person who was once in love with [...]