Don’t know how to deal with your spouse’s current or past affair? Here’s how to understand what has happened, know what you need to do next, forgive, and rebuild trust.
You are not quite sure how you got yourself into the affair, and even less sure about how to end an affair. You love your paramour but hate the sneaking and cheating. You vacillate between ending the affair and giving yourself totally to it. You feel intense emotions for your lover, but even as you tell yourself, or your lover, that everything is going to be wonderful, deep within a small voice says that it will not be.