With Kimberly Holmes. New episodes come out every Tuesday!
Marriage Helper CEO
Kimberly Beam Holmes is passionate about saving marriages. A frequent speaker at women’s conferences and marriage events, she holds a master’s and Ph.D. in Psychology.

Kimberly's Husband
Kimberly Beam Holmes is passionate about saving marriages. A frequent speaker at women’s conferences and marriage events, she holds a master’s and Ph.D. in Psychology.

Welcome to It Starts With Attraction. In every relationship, attraction is more than physical. It’s emotional, intellectual, and spiritual. And when any of those are out of alignment, we begin to feel that growing sense of emotional distance.
These episodes are designed to guide you through real-life relationship challenges, using insights drawn from years of experience in relationship counseling, coaching, and restorative marriage work. Whether you’re saying, “I need to fix my marriage,” or you’re trying to understand how to reconnect with your spouse, you’re in the right place.
With a combination of expert interviews, coaching wisdom, and actionable advice, you’ll learn how to become the best version of yourself — and in turn, how to attract your spouse back emotionally and relationally.
Every episode of It Starts With Attraction is created with your growth in mind. From overcoming emotional distance to strengthening communication and rediscovering intimacy, this podcast serves as a meaningful supplement to relationship counseling and personal development.
If you’ve ever thought, “How can I fix my marriage without losing myself in the process?” this is the space for you. We believe that healing a relationship begins with self-awareness, strength, and clarity—and that you can take positive steps forward, even if your partner isn’t yet ready.
Explore more through our workshops, free resources, and online support community—all developed by the team at Marriage Helper. We’re here to support your next move toward growth, healing, and lasting connection.
Revealing secrets on how to become the most attractive you can be Physically, Intellectually, Emotionally and Spiritually (or as us insiders call it…the PIES). Hosted by Kimberly Beam Holmes and her husband, Rob Holmes, they dive into new and interesting topics released every Tuesday morning.