Will this work if my spouse will not come?

That is exactly who the solo workshop is for. You can only control your half of the marriage, and that half matters more than you think. We have watched it many times: a spouse comes alone, does the work, and the change in them becomes the very thing that brings their partner back to the table.

How is the solo workshop different from the couples workshop?

Same research, different focus. The couples workshop works on the marriage with both of you in the room. The solo workshop is a transformative weekend for you as an individual: understanding what is really happening, getting steady, and learning what to do whether your spouse is in the room or not.

How much does it cost?

The solo workshop is $1,997, in person or live online. That price is for the three-day workshop. Payment plans are available. We do not discount the workshop.

My spouse is in an affair right now. Should I still come?

Yes. People come to us in the middle of active affairs, alone, and it is often the turning point. Apply and tell us what is happening when you do.

How soon can I attend?

We hold workshops regularly, in person and live online. Once your application is reviewed, our team shares the next available dates that fit your situation.

The workshop for the spouse who comes alone.

When your spouse will not come yet, you still can. The solo workshop is not a consolation prize. It is a transformative weekend built around the one thing you can actually control: you. And the change in you is often what brings your spouse back to the table.

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3 daysIn person or live online

By yourselfFor one willing spouse

25,000+ couplesHelped since 1994

Marriage Helper will make your life better, with all relationships, present and future. Even if your marriage is not saved, you will learn so much value for yourself over the three days. There is also always hope, and this is the best program for possible reconciliation.

Workshop attendee

From a card handed in at the end of a workshop.

One willing spouse can change everything.

You cannot make your spouse want the marriage. But you are not powerless, either. A marriage moves when one person stops the reactions that push a partner away and starts the ones that draw them back. That work begins with you, and you do not need permission to start it.

We have seen it again and again. Someone comes to the solo workshop alone, while their spouse wants nothing to do with it. They go home different: calmer, steadier, more themselves. And months later the spouse who swore they were done is the one asking what changed. The change in you is the catalyst. It is the most powerful thing you can offer a marriage that feels one-sided right now.

What people wrote on their way out.

Handwritten cards from real attendees at the end of an in-person workshop.

I originally took the Solo workshop because my spouse wouldn't attend. After 6 weeks, my wife and I attended the couples workshop. This would not have been possible if I didn't transform my behaviors and show up with my spouse in a new and different way. Today we have reconciled. Thank you, Marriage Helper.
Reconciled, after the Solo and couples workshops

I came here to change my spouse but ended up changing me. This workshop gave me hope when I felt hopeless. This workshop made me realize we are all broken and in need of love and grace.
Workshop attendee

I did not want to go. I was glad I went. I did not make any life altering decision during the course of the workshop. I gained tools, understanding and content to think about.
Workshop attendee

Marriage Helper gives people practical tools that they can put into practice over and over again. No shame. No judgment. No preaching.
Workshop attendee

This workshop allowed me at 77 to grow and renew my love for myself, my spouse and my marriage.
Workshop attendee, age 77

I came not willingly. I felt I was forced, but I'm leaving with hope.
Workshop attendee

What the weekend gives you.

Three days, taught live

The same research and tools we teach couples, focused entirely on you and what one willing spouse can actually do.

The tools, not just the theory

You leave with the framework and the specific moves to make at home, ready to use on day one, not a binder you never open.

In person or live online

Join us in Spring Hill, TN, or attend the full workshop live from home. Same teaching either way.

What the workshop costs.

$1,997 In person or live online. This price is for the three-day workshop. Payment plans available. Start your application

What couples say on Google.

4.6186 Google reviews

For me, once I started applying what they taught me, things changed very quickly. My husband came back home and after a few months now we are expecting our first baby!! The love, trust and unity have been totally restored and now our relationship is even stronger and deeper than before. I can honestly credit this workshop for saving our marriage.

AHAnna H.Google review

I attended the Solo Spouse Workshop at a time when my wife was in no way interested in repairing our relationship, and I gained a massive amount of valuable knowledge and tools from it. These are people who really care about you and your marriage.

KHKolby H.Google review

The solo workshop gave me great insights into my part in my marital issues. MH never promises to save your marriage, but I cannot imagine any better approach, giving it the best chance. No magic wand, just a path forward for me to walk, with great support along the way.

MHMike H.Google review

I did the Solo Workshop this past weekend and it was from the Lord! I learned so much, and I love that it was founded on Christian values. I recommend it to everyone who is married.

KBKeila B.Google review

The solo workshop was an eye opener for me. Really helped to understand a lot of things. I highly recommend!

ASAnna S.Google review

Now, a year and a half later, we are still together. We are making long-term plans, communicating more effectively, and connecting on a much deeper level. Whenever I reflect on the positive changes in our marriage, I feel immense gratitude for this organization.

AKAntonina K.Google review

Questions.

Will this work if my spouse will not come?: That is exactly who the solo workshop is for. You can only control your half of the marriage, and that half matters more than you think. We have watched it many times: a spouse comes alone, does the work, and the change in them becomes the very thing that brings their partner back to the table.
How is the solo workshop different from the couples workshop?: Same research, different focus. The couples workshop works on the marriage with both of you in the room. The solo workshop is a transformative weekend for you as an individual: understanding what is really happening, getting steady, and learning what to do whether your spouse is in the room or not.
How much does it cost?: The solo workshop is $1,997, in person or live online. That price is for the three-day workshop. Payment plans are available. We do not discount the workshop.
My spouse is in an affair right now. Should I still come?: Yes. People come to us in the middle of active affairs, alone, and it is often the turning point. Apply and tell us what is happening when you do.
How soon can I attend?: We hold workshops regularly, in person and live online. Once your application is reviewed, our team shares the next available dates that fit your situation.

Come, even if you come alone.

Tell us what is happening in your marriage. Our team reviews every application and shares the next dates that fit your situation. There is no pressure, and no judgment.

Start your application

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