My Spouse Had An Affair – Recovery Toolkit


This affair recovery toolkit helps you understand why your spouse had an affair and what you can do to fix it. It will help you regain your composure, your strength and your dignity.



Do you wish you could save your marriage even though your spouse is having an affair?


We Understand Affairs Like No One Else…

…So That You Can Stop the Affair Like No One Else

First, we are so sorry that you are going through this.

This is not a situation to be taken lightly. We want to help you.

And even though it may not feel like it…there is hope for your situation.

You Don’t Have to Do this Alone…

It takes incredible strength to be where you are right now.

You probably feel lost, confused, alone, and scared, but even though we don’t know you yet, we do know that you have what it takes to stand for your marriage with strength and confidence.

We know that there is hope for your situation.

We would like to help you save your marriage.


In this video series, you will learn the exact same principles that we have taught thousands and thousands of people over the past 20 years to help them understand why their spouse had an affair and what they can do to fix the situation… …and you can learn it all 100% online, from the privacy of your home and the convenience of any internet-savvy device.


The Recovery Toolkit Can Teach You What Steps You Need to Take Next to Understand Your Spouse’s affair

…while also helping you understand what to do next to turn around your situation.

This online video series will teach you what you need to know in order to:

  • Regain your composure

  • Find peace with the situation

  • Be strong when communicating with your spouse

  • Focus on bettering yourself (and how to do that)

  • Have a better understanding of why the affair happened

  • How you can help to end the affair

What Makes the Toolkit Work?


At Marriage Helper, there is one thing that sets us apart from everything else.

We understand affairs.

We know that sounds weird, but it’s true.

We have been saving marriages for 20 years and have worked with thousands of people, and over and over people tell us, “You all really get it. All of this makes so much sense. I wish I would have found you sooner…”

Unfortunately, when people don’t really understand how affairs work, the advice they give can make things worse instead of better.

But here, we understand affairs because many people on our staff have personally experienced affairs…and saved their marriages.

You’ll learn more about the success stories in the Recovery Toolkit course…

…but know this…

There is hope in saving your marriage if your spouse is in an affair (even if you are already divorced!)

It can happen.


Here’s What You Get with the Recovery Toolkit:


  • First, you will go through 7 videos that will teach you the core concepts. This includes:

    • The very first thing you need to do when you find out about the affair

    • What not to do that will make things worse

    • How affairs start and how they will end

    • How long affairs typically last

    • Ways your spouse might manipulate you

    • …and more


  • Once you master the core concepts, then you can move on to deeper material, such as:

    • How do affairs affect children?

    • Should the children be around the affair partner?

    • What you need to know about the process of affairs

    • How to overcome obstacles you will encounter

    • How to make short term and long term decisions for your marriage

    • …and more


  • You’ll get exclusive access to six bonus webinars for Recovery Toolkit members only that discuss specific topics such as:

    • 7 steps to instill boundaries

    • How to focus on yourself to attract your spouse back to you

    • Is your marriage worth saving
    • Understanding the pain of infidelity

    • Understanding why your spouse cheated

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