Become your best self. On purpose.
Four complete toolkits from Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes on the PIES: growing the physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual attraction that makes you the kind of person other people genuinely want to be around. Including your spouse.
What it actually teaches.
Attraction is not something you either have or do not have. It is something you grow on purpose, in four areas: physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual. We call them the PIES, and they are the foundation under everything Marriage Helper teaches, because the person you become is the strongest pull a marriage has.
Your Best Self is the complete PIES system from Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes: four full toolkits, one for each area, with an assessment to find where you are starting and lessons that build from there. People buy it to save a marriage, and keep using it because it changes how they carry themselves everywhere else too.
What's inside.
Four complete toolkits, 37 video lessons with workbook prompts, and a PIES assessment for each area. Self-paced, on any device, yours for life.
- The Physical Attraction Toolkit Ten lessons: what physical attraction really is, a sustainable food plan, fitness and movement, and how stress affects all of it.
- The Intellectual Attraction Toolkit Ten lessons: what you loved to do at ten, becoming a great conversationalist, rewiring your brain, and how triggers happen.
- The Emotional Attraction Toolkit Nine lessons: the wall and the safe place, the five emotional attraction dragons, connecting with purpose, and understanding forgiveness.
- The Spiritual Attraction Toolkit Eight lessons: beliefs and values, finding the gap, connecting with your purpose, and catalog, calendar, commit.
Who it's for.
This is for you if
- You keep hearing that the work starts with you, and you are ready to actually do it.
- You feel stuck in more than one area: body, mind, emotions, or faith.
- You want to become someone your spouse is drawn back toward, not someone who chases.
- You want a system with assessments and a plan, not a motivational talk.
Taught by Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes.
Kimberly holds a PhD in performance psychology and leads Marriage Helper as CEO. Her research centers on the question most marriage advice skips: what actually draws two people back toward each other, and how a person grows the kind of attraction that lasts.
She also teaches it from experience. In 2013 she was certain her own marriage was finished. It came back, on the same research she teaches here.
Read Kimberly's story →What couples say on Google.
The twelve-week Save My Marriage Course was amazing to walk through and complete and I can’t wait to do more of their courses, as I learned so much.
Even in my case I saw that smart contact and PIES worked. I will apply the principles in my future relationship.
It’s user friendly and All of the information is there to help you succeed in saving your marriage. It works! It takes effort, the tools and the support are there if you need it.
One payment. Yours for life.
- Focused video lessons, taught start to finish
- Lifetime access, streaming on any device
- Self-paced, rewatch as your situation changes
- One payment, no subscription
Want it live with our team instead? See the workshop.
Questions.
- Is this only for people in a marriage crisis?
- No. It is the work we assign spouses in crisis, because becoming your best self is the strongest pull there is. But the four toolkits stand on their own as a personal development system, whatever state your marriage is in.
- Should I get this or the full Save My Marriage Course?
- This toolkit goes deep on one piece of the picture. The Save My Marriage Course is the complete twelve-lesson framework covering the whole situation. If this one issue is what is burning hottest, start here. If you want the entire system, start with the course.
- How long do I have access?
- For life. Everything is self-paced, streams on any device, and stays yours, so you can rewatch lessons as your situation changes.