Will this work if my spouse will not come?

That is exactly who the solo workshop is for. You can only control your half of the marriage, and that half matters more than you think. We have watched it many times: a spouse comes alone, does the work, and the change in them becomes the very thing that brings their partner back to the table.

How is the solo workshop different from the couples workshop?

Same research, different focus. The couples workshop works on the marriage with both of you in the room. The solo workshop is a transformative weekend for you as an individual: understanding what is really happening, getting steady, and learning what to do whether your spouse is in the room or not.

How much does it cost?

The solo workshop is $1,997, in person or live online, and includes six private coaching sessions and a year inside our membership. Payment plans are available. We do not discount the workshop.

My spouse is in an affair right now. Should I still come?

Yes. People come to us in the middle of active affairs, alone, and it is often the turning point. Apply and tell us what is happening when you do.

How soon can I attend?

We hold workshops regularly, in person and live online. Once your application is reviewed, our team shares the next available dates that fit your situation.

The workshop for the spouse who comes alone.

When your spouse will not come yet, you still can. The solo workshop is not a consolation prize. It is a transformative weekend built around the one thing you can actually control: you. And the change in you is often what brings your spouse back to the table.

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3 daysIn person or live online

By yourselfFor one willing spouse

25,000+ couplesHelped since 1994

One willing spouse can change everything.

You cannot make your spouse want the marriage. But you are not powerless, either. A marriage moves when one person stops the reactions that push a partner away and starts the ones that draw them back. That work begins with you, and you do not need permission to start it.

We have seen it again and again. Someone comes to the solo workshop alone, while their spouse wants nothing to do with it. They go home different: calmer, steadier, more themselves. And months later the spouse who swore they were done is the one asking what changed. The change in you is the catalyst. It is the most powerful thing you can offer a marriage that feels one-sided right now.

What the weekend gives you.

Three days, taught live

The same research and tools we teach couples, focused entirely on you and what one willing spouse can actually do. In person in Spring Hill, TN, or live online.

Six private coaching sessions

One-on-one time with a Certified Marriage Helper Coach after the workshop, to keep the work going once you are back home.

A year inside the membership

Twelve months of the Marriage Helper community, toolkits, and support calls, so you are never doing this alone.

One price, everything included.

$1,997 In person or live online. Six private coaching sessions and a year in the membership included. Payment plans available. Start your application

What couples say on Google.

4.6186 Google reviews

For me, once I started applying what they taught me, things changed very quickly. My husband came back home and after a few months now we are expecting our first baby!! The love, trust and unity have been totally restored and now our relationship is even stronger and deeper than before. I can honestly credit this workshop for saving our marriage.

AHAnna H.Google review

I attended the Solo Spouse Workshop at a time when my wife was in no way interested in repairing our relationship, and I gained a massive amount of valuable knowledge and tools from it. These are people who really care about you and your marriage.

KHKolby H.Google review

The solo workshop gave me great insights into my part in my marital issues. MH never promises to save your marriage, but I cannot imagine any better approach, giving it the best chance. No magic wand, just a path forward for me to walk, with great support along the way.

MHMike H.Google review

I did the Solo Workshop this past weekend and it was from the Lord! I learned so much, and I love that it was founded on Christian values. I recommend it to everyone who is married.

KBKeila B.Google review

I went through the solo workshop, acquired all of the tool kits and have six coaching sessions. Dr Joe, Kimberly and all of the staff have changed my life and my relationship with my kids. My focus has been shifted from changing my wife’s mind to becoming the best version of me.

SCScott C.Google review

The solo workshop was an eye opener for me. Really helped to understand a lot of things. I highly recommend!

ASAnna S.Google review

Questions.

Will this work if my spouse will not come?: That is exactly who the solo workshop is for. You can only control your half of the marriage, and that half matters more than you think. We have watched it many times: a spouse comes alone, does the work, and the change in them becomes the very thing that brings their partner back to the table.
How is the solo workshop different from the couples workshop?: Same research, different focus. The couples workshop works on the marriage with both of you in the room. The solo workshop is a transformative weekend for you as an individual: understanding what is really happening, getting steady, and learning what to do whether your spouse is in the room or not.
How much does it cost?: The solo workshop is $1,997, in person or live online, and includes six private coaching sessions and a year inside our membership. Payment plans are available. We do not discount the workshop.
My spouse is in an affair right now. Should I still come?: Yes. People come to us in the middle of active affairs, alone, and it is often the turning point. Apply and tell us what is happening when you do.
How soon can I attend?: We hold workshops regularly, in person and live online. Once your application is reviewed, our team shares the next available dates that fit your situation.

Come, even if you come alone.

Tell us what is happening in your marriage. Our team reviews every application and shares the next dates that fit your situation. There is no pressure, and no judgment.

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