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Understanding Limerence: Why Your Spouse Loves Another
There is a word for the feeling of being "madly in love", and we'll use that word because it's easier than saying feeling madly in love with somebody else.
The Three Stages of Limerence
There is a difference between that feeling of love and being "madly in love."
Understanding Limerence: The Madly In Love Syndrome
What is going on in the head/heart of someone "madly in love" with another? Why do they do the things they do? Say the things they say? Make the decisions [...]
What Happens When An Affair Ends Abruptly?
What happens when an affair ends abruptly?
Interventions for Spouses in an Affair?
QUESTION: Should I perform an intervention on my husband who is having an affair? My Husband filed for divorce in Feb 2013 in response to me filing for legal separation. We [...]
How Long Do Affairs Last?
If you want to know how long affairs last, we must first establish what kind of affair it is. There are 3 different types of affairs.
Cheating Husband? Here’s How To Talk to Him.
"I would like your wise opinion about how to deal with my husband who is involved with another woman. He's coming today & I told him I want to talk but I don't want to argue."
Can You Push Your Spouse to Have an Affair?
"Did I Push My Spouse Into an Affair?" We often receive questions like this: "Do all the faithful spouses play a part? I don't think that we do. I think that's a cop [...]
How To Get Over Limerence After Ending An Affair
Though limerence by its very nature is relatively short-lived (typically lasting somewhere between 3 months and 36 months) it is a very real and intense emotion/feeling. When a person decides to leave a limerent relationship, or if they are the one abandoned by the other, the emotions don't immediately disappear.