The 3-day workshop for marriages most counselors won't take.
Even if one of you wants out. Even if the affair is still happening. Even if you have tried everything. This is where couples come when the marriage is already in pieces.
This isn't couples therapy. It's a different kind of room.
Most marriage help assumes both people want to be there. Ours does not. We built this workshop for the moments when one spouse is checked out, the other is panicking, and every conversation makes it worse.
You learn what's actually happening.
Most struggling spouses are reacting to the wrong problem. We teach you to read what is really going on so the next thing you say does not make it worse.
You leave with plays you can run this week.
Not concepts. Not homework. Actual moves for the conversations you will have on Monday, when your spouse comes home, when the kids ask, when you are tempted to push again.
Hard cases are the norm here.
The couples in the room are the same ones therapists call too far gone. Adultery. Addiction. Years of distance. One spouse already filed. The workshop was designed around these cases.
You don't have to come together.
Many couples arrive with one spouse all in and the other on the fence. Some come solo because their spouse refused. We work with what you have.
Who this is built for.
We are honest about who fits this workshop and who does not. If your situation is on the right, this is not the right room. If it is on the left, you are exactly who we built it for.
This is for you if
- You want to save your marriage and your spouse is not sure, or has said no.
- There has been an affair and you do not know what to do with it.
- You have tried counseling and it did not move the needle.
- You are afraid of saying the wrong thing every time you open your mouth.
- You are willing to do something different than what you have been doing.
This is not for you if
- There is active physical abuse. We refer those cases to specialists.
- You are looking for validation that you should leave.
- You expect us to convince your spouse to feel something they do not.
- You want a one-hour fix instead of three days of work.
The framework we teach across all three days.
Seven steps, in this order. We have watched thousands of couples skip steps and end up back where they started. The order matters as much as the steps.
- Calm DownGet out of crisis-brain so you can think.
- Get ClaritySee what's actually happening, not the worst story.
- Stop Pushes & Start PullsTrade the reactions that repel for the ones that draw.
- Forgive & ReconcileBegin the forgiving that frees you first.
- Rebuild TrustMake change visible over time, not in one promise.
- Ignite Intimacy & PassionRestore the friendship before the spark returns.
- Build Your Dream Life TogetherAim the marriage at something worth staying for.
Three days. One outcome: you leave knowing what to do.
The workshop runs across three days, taught live by our team. You are in the room with other couples in your situation, doing the work in real time.
Day one: see it clearly
What is really going on in your marriage. Why what you have been doing has not worked. The pattern you are stuck in, and how to step out of it.
Day two: do the hard work
Forgiveness, accountability, and the conversations you have been avoiding. This is the day couples remember.
Day three: leave with a plan
Specific plays for the first 30 days. What to say. What to stop saying. What to do when the old patterns try to come back.
What it costs.
Both formats, in person in Spring Hill, TN or live online, cover all three days. Payment plans are available. We do not discount the workshop.
Attend as a couple
$2,997
Both spouses, all three days, couple-specific materials and a plan you build together.
Apply as a coupleAttend solo
$1,997
Come on your own when your spouse will not, and still learn exactly what to do at home.
Apply soloCouples who were sure it was over.
Real people who sat in this room. Hundreds more tell their stories on our YouTube channel.
“We were so close to giving up. We came in with almost no hope, and we left with a plan and a real reason to stay.”
Watch their story “We were treated with complete respect. Nothing was forced on us, and that is what let us actually do the work.”
Watch their story “We would not be where we are now without it. We finally learned how to reach for each other again.”
Watch their story What couples say on Google.
We had a wonderful Zoom workshop weekend. Everyone at Marriage Helper was great. We both learned a lot about each other, even after 45 years of marriage. It is never too late to learn to be your best.
I was a little skeptical that it would work for us before we went to the workshop, but boy, was I wrong. If you are not sure about this, DO IT! We have attended traditional therapy for 3 years and made more progress in just one weekend.
One of the most professional workshops I have ever been involved in. The information was clear, easy to understand, and very insightful. I would recommend it to any married couple at any stage of their marriage.
Got so much out of the 3-day workshop. I especially liked the practical, hands-on tools that were given, and it made the time go by fast. My hope is that they will make a change for the better in my marriage and in my immediate family.
Unlike counseling, this program focused on what we could change about ourselves, rather than rehashing everything that we were doing to make each other miserable. Rather than leaving angry, embarrassed and bitter...we fell in love again and are happily married seven years later!!!
The workshop was extremely helpful. We both learned a lot of information about each other that we otherwise would have never learned. Worth every penny of the cost. Highly recommend it!
Upcoming workshop dates.
- June 12-14, 2026 Couples Workshop. In person, Spring Hill, TN Apply →
- June 26-28, 2026 Men's Workshop. In person, Spring Hill, TN Apply →
- June 26-28, 2026 Couples Workshop. Live online Apply →
- July 10-12, 2026 Couples Workshop. In person, Spring Hill, TN Apply →
- July 10-12, 2026 Solo Workshop. Live online, attend solo Apply →
- July 24-26, 2026 Couples Workshop. Live online Apply →
- August 7-9, 2026 Couples Workshop. In person, Spring Hill, TN Apply →
- August 7-9, 2026 Solo Workshop. Live online, attend solo Apply →
- August 14-16, 2026 Couples Workshop. Live online Apply →
- September 11-13, 2026 Couples Workshop. In person, Spring Hill, TN Apply →
- September 18-20, 2026 Solo Workshop. Live online, attend solo Apply →
- September 25-27, 2026 Men's Workshop. In person, Spring Hill, TN Apply →
- September 25-27, 2026 Couples Workshop. Live online Apply →
Apply for the next workshop.
Every couple is screened. The application takes about five minutes. We read every response and reach out with available dates and next steps once you submit.
Start your applicationQuestions couples ask before they apply.
What if my spouse won’t come?
You can attend solo. Many spouses come alone and still see major shifts at home. The workshop teaches you what to do whether your spouse is in the room or not.
How much does it cost?
The Couples Workshop is $2,997 for a couple and $1,997 to attend solo, in person or live online. Payment plans are available. We do not discount the workshop.
How is this different from marriage counseling?
Counseling is an hour a week of talking about your marriage. The workshop is three full days of working on it, taught live, with specific tools. It is intentionally not therapy.
Will you make us share private details with strangers?
No. You are never required to disclose anything in the group. Most of the work is done between you and your spouse, with our team available for one-on-one support.
What if the affair is still happening?
Couples come to us during active affairs. We have seen it before. Apply and tell us what is happening when you do.
How soon can we attend?
We hold workshops regularly, in person in Spring Hill, TN and live online. Once your application is reviewed, our team shares the next available dates that fit your situation.