What things can you do to motivate your spouse to attend our Workshop for marriages in trouble?
What kinds of things can you tell your spouse that may motivate him to attend the workshop? Here are just a few (note that I phrase them in such a way as to allow the reluctant spouse to realize benefits even is s/he has no desire at this point to salvage the marriage):
1. Learn the Basics of a Good Relationship
The workshop educates you about essential elements of a good relationship – covering principles that many people haven’t been taught in life or that they don’t understand the power of. That is extremely beneficial to both of you even if you decide that relationship will not be with each other.
THE BENEFIT TO EACH OF YOU: You will have deeper happiness and better relationships.
2. Learn How to Co-Parent
If you have children, the principles you’ll learn about how to communicate without hurting each other further and how to get along peacefully will be of extreme value to co-parenting. We don’t teach parenting principles per se, but showing you how to remove conflict from your interactions is crucial to your children’s emotional well-being. Even though the marriage may end, your family never will.
THE BENEFIT TO EACH OF YOU: Your children will know that you truly love them. They will have a better future than they will if you don’t learn to do this.
3. Learn How to Compromise
We share a methodology for compromising when you disagree with each other so that neither one of you loses. (This also helps with co-parenting, as well as in many other areas you will face together…or separately.)
THE BENEFIT TO EACH OF YOU: You will never be taken advantage of again because you will know how to get what is important to you.
4. It Helps You – No Matter What
The workshop also leads you to understand more about you – your personality, your dreams, your inner peace, and your future.
THE BENEFIT TO EACH OF YOU: You will love yourself in the best kind of way. Your self-esteem, confidence, and inner strength will take you to a better life.
5. Understand the Future
The workshop will help you think clearly about your future, no matter what path you intend to take. You will understand the benefits and consequences of any decision.
THE BENEFIT TO EACH OF YOU: Your future will be far better. You will guide your life in the best way for you.
6. Get Out of a Rut
We show you the power of your dreams, and how you can use that to move forward in life no matter what happens.
THE BENEFIT TO EACH OF YOU: You can harness the power of a life altering dream so that you have a life well-lived and well-loved.
7. Experience the Power of Forgiveness
We explain how you can get past your hurt, loose chains of anger that negatively affect you, and even learn to forgive and trust again if you choose to do so.
THE BENEFIT TO EACH OF YOU: You will find a peace deep within yourself, no matter what you have done or what has been done to you.
As you would understand, each person participating in the workshop has the opportunity to gain all that is mentioned above, but whether s/he does is dependent on whether they apply in life the powerful principles s/he learns.