When To Break SMART Contact With Your Spouse
Caroline2022-03-25T12:27:18-06:00When do you break SMART contact with your spouse? Perhaps your spouse wants to leave, and you freaked out. What can you say or do that will fix your situation?
When do you break SMART contact with your spouse? Perhaps your spouse wants to leave, and you freaked out. What can you say or do that will fix your situation?
If you want to know what you can do to get your ex back, then this is for you. Whether you're separated or divorced, I'm going to teach you a three-step formula you can follow in order to do the best things you can do to get your ex back.
If you’ve been trying NO CONTACT and feel stuck, confused, or don’t even know what to do next this is for you.
“No Contact” is a phenomenon that a ton of people (especially on YouTube) are talking about. It's getting a lot of attention... but it's not something you want to do for your marriage.
So, if you’re wondering, “What do I do when SMART Contact isn't working?” you've come to the right place! In this article, I’ll explain the top two reasons why SMART Contact isn't working. And, I'm going to share with you two ways that you may be doing SMART Contact wrong. (Especially if you say it's “not working.”)
You may have seen some people out there talking about “No Contact” and you may be wondering, “Is this something I should try for my marriage?” Or maybe you've already been trying “No Contact” and you're puzzled, wondering, “When is it actually going to start working?”
If you're wondering... “How am I supposed to talk to my spouse when they won’t talk to me?” Or, “What do I do when we’re in the middle of a fight, separation, or divorce?” this is for YOU.
One question we get all the time is, “How do I use SMART Contact if I have kids?” If you and your spouse have a family, the thought of going days or weeks without talking to your spouse is more than painful- it’s scary! You’re not just thinking about you- you’re also thinking about your children… “How is it going to affect them if they don’t hear from their mom or their dad for an extended period of time?” Because children are involved, we want to help you implement SMART Contact in the best way.
The Holidays can be some of the most difficult and lonely times of the year, especially if your spouse is completely disengaged. Maybe your spouse stopped talking to you, or you’re separated, or you’re in the middle of a divorce… Whatever your situation may be, SMART Contact is the BEST way to communicate with your spouse, no matter what has happened. If anything works to bring back your spouse and get them to open up, this will.
When we at first called it No Contact, as a way of getting your spouse back, we didn't anticipate how people would hear those words over the other things we said about the principle. Allow me to explain: