Save Your Marriage - Even If You're the Only One Who Still Believes It's Possible.
We have helped more than 25,000 couples find a way forward from the hardest moments a marriage can face - affairs, limerence, separation, emotional distance, divorce proceedings already filed. There is a path. We have walked it with couples in far worse situations than yours.
Marriage Helper is a 3-day intensive marriage crisis program founded by Dr. Joe Beam and led by Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes. Unlike marriage counseling, it does not require both spouses to participate, focuses on behavior change rather than conversation, and achieves a documented 70% success rate across 25,000+ couples - including cases involving active affairs, limerence, divorce proceedings already filed, and spouses who arrived completely unwilling to try. The program includes specialized curriculum on limerence - the neurochemical state behind most affairs.
I want to save your marriage in 3 days. Here is exactly what that looks like.
I rebuilt my own marriage before I led this organization. That is not a footnote - it is why I do this work. Most people who find us are not looking for hope. They are looking for a way out of the worst pain they have ever felt. I understand that. Dr. Joe Beam built this program after his own marriage crisis. The people here have lived what you are living.
70% of couples who go through our workshop are still married two years later and report being happy. That number comes from three independent studies including ongoing research we run ourselves. It includes couples who arrived with divorce papers already filed. It includes marriages where an affair was still happening when they walked in. It includes spouses who sat in that first session with their arms crossed saying they were only there because they promised one more try.
"It is not therapy. We do not rehash your childhood. We teach behavior change - because attraction, trust, safety and security do not rebuild through talking. They rebuild through action."
Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes, CEO, Marriage Helper
Marriage Workshop Programs: The Solo Path and The Couples Path.
Your spouse doesn't have to want to be there. They just have to show up. Even someone who is mostly reluctant will work. We have seen it hundreds of times.
For one spouse working alone
The Solo Path
One person committed to saving the marriage can shift the entire dynamic. You do not need your spouse there to start. Three of the core steps in the Marriage Helper process can be done entirely by one person - and that is often enough to change everything.
- 3-Day Solo Workshop intensive
- 6 Private coaching sessions
- 12-month community access
- 9 live support calls each week
For both spouses - even a reluctant one
The Couples Path
Both spouses attend together - even if one is reluctant, checked out, or only there because they promised one more try. We work with the marriage as it actually is, not as it should be. The 70% success rate includes couples who arrived in active crisis.
- 3-Day Couples Workshop intensive
- 6 Private coaching sessions
- 12-month community access for both
- 9 live support calls each week
Not sure which fits? Take the free assessment and we will tell you.
Marriage Help for Couples in Crisis. Even the Hardest Cases.
The couples who need us most are the ones who have been turned away everywhere else. We designed every part of this program around exactly that.
Divorce Papers Already Filed
Most programs turn people away at this stage. We don't. Many of the couples who have come to us with this news are still together.
An Affair or Limerence Still Happening
Affairs often involve limerence - an involuntary neurochemical state that feels like love but is not. Working to end an active affair requires a completely different approach than recovering after one. We have helped couples navigate both, including marriages where the affair partner was still in contact when they arrived at the workshop.
A Spouse Who Doesn't Want to Be There
Reluctant spouses are not a deal-breaker. Many of our most successful couples started with one spouse sitting in that first session saying they were only there because they promised one more try. Three words have come out of those workshops more times than we can count: "I am glad."
Marriages that were supposed to be over.
We divorced in February 2019, and we're getting remarried next month. God did this. He put Marriage Helper on my path and I could not be more grateful. Remember, it's only crazy till it happens.
I was looking for someone to tell me it was done. Move on with your life. That's what I wanted. Instead I stumbled across a Marriage Helper video. It gave me the hope I didn't want at the time. I'm so grateful.
Finding you guys was obviously what saved our marriage. What it did for her is it gave her hope. Because I was so distant for so long, it gave her a connection. I'm not in this alone.
They built this from their own marriages. Then helped 25,000 others.
Kimberly rebuilt her own marriage before she led this organization. She holds a PhD in psychology, hosts Relationship Radio, and speaks internationally on marriage crisis and recovery. She leads Marriage Helper with one belief: most marriages that end did not have to.
Dr. Joe Beam founded Marriage Helper after his own marriage crisis. He has spent 30 years researching why people fall in and out of love - including the neuroscience of limerence and affair attachment. His research is the foundation of everything Marriage Helper does. He has worked directly with more than 25,000 couples.
What happens if you close this tab and do nothing.
The drift does not stop on its own. The story your spouse is telling themselves about the marriage gets a little more certain every day without intervention - not because it is true, but because the brain mistakes repetition for evidence. Couples who act in the first weeks of recognizing a crisis have dramatically better outcomes than those who wait months. It is rarely too late. But earlier is always better.
You found this page for a reason. That reason is not going away.
See Where Your Marriage Stands →100% Happiness Guarantee
No refunds - but we do not walk away if something is not working. If your coach is not the right fit, we find you a different one. If the timing of your workshop needs to change, we work with you. If something about your experience falls short, we want to know and we will make it right. Our commitment does not end when the three days do.
The story is not over. Unless you stop here.
Answer a few questions about where your marriage is right now. Based on your answers, we will tell you exactly which path fits your situation and what to do next.
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