Marriage Course: Understanding Affairs - The Limerence Toolkit - Marriage Helper

Understanding Limerence Toolkit

Struggling to understand the powerful emotions behind an affair? The Understanding Limerence Toolkit is:

Affairs Don't Just Happen

There are deeper forces at play, and one of the most misunderstood is limerence—the intoxicating, obsessive feeling of being “madly in love” that can drive someone to make irrational, life-changing decisions. Maybe you’ve heard the term before, but do you truly understand it?

The Understanding Affairs Toolkit—led by renowned relationship experts Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes—dives deep into the complexities of limerence and the psychology behind affairs. This toolkit offers the insight and tools you need to navigate the emotional whirlwind that an affair creates.

What You'll Learn:

What causes limerence: learn how this powerful emotion takes hold and why it can feel impossible to break free.
The differences between love & limerence: understand the distinction between genuine love and the all-consuming fantasy of limerence.
The stages of limerence: get a clear breakdown of the phases of limerence and what to expect as it evolves.
What happens after limerence ends: learn how to handle the aftermath, whether it’s rebuilding your marriage or finding closure.
And much more... Gain expert advice on how to respond to an affair and take steps toward healing, whether you’re on the giving or receiving end.

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MH is such a blessing. I am so grateful I found the program when I did. The principles of the program teach us to walk this journey with integrity. I got to MH because I was desperate. I stay because I am inspired.

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What's In The Understanding Limerence Toolkit?

Understanding Limerence:

Affairs can leave you feeling powerless and devastated, but understanding what’s truly happening can be the key to rebuilding trust, connection, and even a stronger marriage. With this toolkit, you’ll get access to exclusive videos, live Q&A sessions, and practical strategies from Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes to help you take control of your situation.

The Seven Steps:

This course covers aspects in Steps 2 and 3, Gain Clarity and Stop Pushes, Start Pulls. It is intended for a solo spouse.

Calm
Down

Gain
Clarity

Stop Pushes
Start Pulls

Forgive &
Reconcile

Build
Trust

Ignite
Passion

Dream
Together

What Makes Marriage Helper Different?

No therapist required. You don’t have to convince your spouse to attend a single session.
No dragging it out. Work at your pace, without endless scheduling or cancellations.
No runaway bills. One payment for lifetime access to this course. That’s less than two hours with most counselors.
No matter what has happened. Affairs. Addiction. Control. Distance. We’ve helped thousands of people in your exact situation.

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Get The Clarity You Need

If you’re ready to move from confusion to clarity, from pain to healing, The Understanding Affairs Toolkit is the resource you need. Don’t miss your chance to gain the deep insight and tools that could change your marriage—and your life.

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