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My Spouse Says They Don’t Love Me Anymore

By Dr. Joe Beam & Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes
Published  ·  Updated  ·  1 min read

The short answer

Hearing “I don’t love you anymore” does not have to mean your marriage is over. It hurts, whether your spouse says it outright or says “I love you, but I’m not in love with you,” but there is still a lot you can do. In this Relationship Radio episode, Dr. Kimberly and Dr. Joe talk through what that looks like.

Key takeaways

  • Hearing your spouse say “I don’t love you anymore” or “I love you, but I’m not in love with you” is deeply painful.
  • Those words do not automatically mean the marriage is over, because there is still a lot you can do.
  • In this Relationship Radio episode, Dr. Kimberly and Dr. Joe talk through what you can do after your spouse says they’ve fallen out of love.
  • What Marriage Helper teaches is meant to improve your relationship and help you grow into the best version of yourself in the process.

Nobody wants to hear it. And if you’ve heard it, it hurts… It’s when your spouse looks at you and says, “I don’t love you anymore.” Or maybe they say it like this, “I love you, but I’m not in love with you anymore.”

Is it over? Is there anything you can do? Actually, there’s a lot you can do. That’s what we talk about on today’s episode of Relationship Radio.

Relationship Radio is hosted by CEO of Marriage Helper, Kimberly Beam Holmes, and founder of Marriage Helper, Dr. Joe Beam.

Regardless of your situation, what we teach will not only make your relationships better, but will also help you to become the best version of yourself along the way.

Relationship Radio is released every Wednesday and is an extension of Marriage Helper.

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Common questions

Is my marriage over if my spouse says they don’t love me anymore?

Not necessarily. Hearing “I don’t love you anymore” hurts, but there is a lot you can still do, and that is what Dr. Kimberly and Dr. Joe talk about in this episode of Relationship Radio.

What does it mean when my spouse says “I love you, but I’m not in love with you”?

It is another way a spouse says they don’t love you anymore, and it hurts just as much. This episode looks at whether that means the marriage is over and what you can do next.

What can I do when my spouse has fallen out of love with me?

There is a lot you can do, and this episode walks through it. What Marriage Helper teaches is meant to make your relationship better and help you become the best version of yourself along the way.

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