When You’re Out Of Options & Your Spouse Won’t Even Consider Saving The Marriage
The proven roadmap to stop your spouse from leaving the marriage and pull your spouse back – even if you are the only one trying
Get access for just $99. Cancel Anytime.
You’re overwhelmed and exhausted. You’ve tried counseling, therapy, self-help books … and nothing has worked. In fact, it seems like the more you try, the worse things get.
You can keep trying to figure it out on your own…but every day that you wait, your marriage continues to slip away.
If your spouse is completely disconnected and you feel like you’re at the end of your rope, then this is for you.
“Lots of great content, powerful strategies, it showed me totally different approach to my marriage and introduced a different mindset. Absolutely crucial knowledge how to build a healthy relationships.” -Diana
“I got to MH because I was desperate. I stay because I am inspired. The principles of the program teach us to walk this journey with integrity.”
-Maria
“Saved a marriage I was SURE I wanted out of.”
-Amanda
“Being told ‘I am not in love with you anymore’ is something I don’t wish on anyone. This program saved me from spending my days crying in bed. It gave me a plan.”
-Patty
Your journey starts with the 12-week Save My Marriage Protocol. Each week, you’ll unlock the exact steps to handle what to do when your spouse leaves, is having an affair, or files for divorce. As you progress, you’ll unlock advanced toolkits to help you sustain your progress for the long run.
If your spouse is willing to work on the marriage, this program is NOT for you. Learn more about our couples program here.
The Save My Marriage Course is online and can be done in the comfort and privacy of your own home, at your own timing. You will get real marriage help that has worked for thousands with the weekly video sessions in the course.
If you’ve already tried counseling or other online programs – People come to us all the time who have already tried other “methods” or “programs” or counseling or therapy or all of the above… which didn’t make any difference (or made their marriage WORSE!) Ultimately, the Save My Marriage Program is what FINALLY works.
It’s a comprehensive, hands-on program designed to help you take immediate, effective action:
13+ Hours/Week of Live Support
$7,500+ Annual Value
Crisis doesn’t happen on a schedule. Our Certified Coaches open live support calls to make sure you get your questions answered.
Stuck on a text? Ask us.
Handling stonewalling? Ask us.
Spouse went no contact? We can guide you.
And then one more thing… Spouse in love with someone else? We’ll help.
Video Toolkit Library
$2,500 Value
Stop guessing. Get instant access to our step-by-step Toolkits designed for the hardest situations.
SMART Contact™ Toolkit
Understanding Affairs Toolkit
My Spouse Had An Affair Toolkit
+13 more topic based toolkits
Private Online Community
$500 Value
Our private community is a safe harbor of thousands of people standing for their marriages. No social media required.
“Marriage Helper has been a lifeline for me… offering hope in a sea of hopelessness.” — Ray, Member
On it’s own, the Save My Marriage Program is $400.
Each marriage saving toolkit is $129 each.
Over 13 hours of LIVE SUPPORT CALLS a week valued at $7,500/year
A private online community valued at $500/year
One Session of Therapy
$150-$200/hr
The Save My Marriage Program
$99 Per Month
Join today. Use the Toolkits. Join the Support Calls. Lean on the Community. Simply email us if you decide to cancel. The only question we will ask is if we could have done anything better :)
Our Save My Marriage membership is a recurring subscription, meaning we will take the same payment every month. You get your first month for 50% off, and it will go to normal price for your second month and beyond. Your access to all the membership resources will continue until you cancel your membership.
It’s hassle-free to cancel and you can do it easily via your profile section or by emailing us as [email protected]. If you decide to cancel, you will still have full access for the duration you have paid for. Your membership payment will be taken each month on the same day of the month that you signed up until you cancel.
At various times during the month we will host a weekly challenge within the membership. Videos are posted each day by one of our coaches, and you are encouraged to join in the challenge to refocus yourself. Past challenges have focused on saving your marriage, reconciling, acceptance, and dealing with pain.
We currently have 5 support calls per week included in the membership, these are taking place on Monday at 12 noon CT and 6:30pm CT, Tuesday at 1pm CT, Wednesday at 6:30pm CT, and Thursday at 11 am CT. These dates and times are subject to change. The calls take place on zoom and are run by a Marriage Helper Certified Coach, you will have the opportunity to ask questions and the coaches are on camera and answer these questions live.
Yes, they are recorded and available for playback after the session in case you miss a session or want a recap.
As an active member, you will get $54 off a 55-minute 1:1 Coaching session, so it is $145 instead of the regular price of $199.
We have a special membership offer for Couples Workshop graduates with workshop-specific resources included, please contact your workshop advisor or email us at [email protected] to find out more.
Yes! Your Save My Marriage Membership gives you immediate access to the Save My Marriage Course AS WELL AS access to our Toolkits – including SMART Contact™ Toolkit, Art of Attraction Toolkit, Art of Falling in Love, Why Does My Spouse Hate Me, Boundaries Toolkit, Rebuilding Trust, Affair Recovery Toolkits, Your Best Self Toolkit Collection, and more.
Don’t spend another day guessing. Secure the support you need to turn your marriage around.
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The Marriage Helper Community is a private membership for spouses in marriage crisis. A place to ask the questions you can't say out loud at home, and get real answers from coaches who know what to do next and members who've stood exactly where you're standing.
Someone is already here. Come stand with them.
Your best friend means well, your mom is praying, and your therapist is asking how that made you feel. None of it touches the question keeping you up at 2am.
The Community exists because we kept watching members go home from our workshop on Sunday night and feel that quiet hit again on Tuesday. So we built somewhere they could come back to. A place where the questions you can't say out loud at home are the normal conversation. Where the coach who answered them on Monday's call is the same one who'll be on Wednesday's. Where someone in the forum is exactly six months ahead of you and remembers what it felt like to be where you are.
And we put real people here every day: coaches who'll tell you the truth, moderators who tend the forum so it stays a safe place to be honest, and peer mentors who came through their own crisis and now hold the door open for the next person.
You shouldn't have to do this alone. You actually can't do this alone. And now you don't have to figure out where to find the people who get it.
Each is its own kind of help. You don't have to know where to start. The team will show you the day you join.
Members are in there right now. Threads on infidelity, limerence, controlling behavior, attachment patterns, feeling out of love, rebuilding trust, and the specific questions you can't ask anyone you know. Moderated by our team so it stays honest, kind, and confidential. If you post at 2am, someone will be there to answer.
Topic-specific calls led by Marriage Helper Certified Coaches. Bring the situation you're stuck in. Leave with what to do this week, and what to stop doing right now. Every call is recorded if you can't make it live.
Member-only events every week. Live Q&As with Dr. Joe and Kimberly. Themed support circles. Expert teach-ins on the topics most members are wrestling with that month. One thing on the calendar that's just for you.
Every Marriage Helper toolkit is unlocked the day you join, so the right one is ready whether you're in Active Crisis on day one or pulling up Conversation Starters before a hard talk. Use it when the situation calls for it.
A real Wednesday at noon. Coach Jamie up front, 100+ members on the call, and the chat going the whole hour.
P.S. Coach Jamie is a real Marriage Helper Certified Coach. The chat names are illustrative. We take member privacy seriously, so you won't find real member faces or full names anywhere on this page.
A real look at what members are saying to each other this week. Names changed. Everything else is real.
"I keep wanting to text him every five minutes. Coach Scott on Monday's call said to write it down and not send it. I have a notebook full of unsent texts and somehow it's helping..."
"He's still here. We had a real conversation last night. Not a perfect one, a real one. If you're in week one reading this, please keep going. I almost didn't..."
"It's been four months. The Limerence Toolkit said this can be a 6 to 18 month window. I think I just need someone to tell me they made it through the middle..."
Members post across Announcements, Community Chat, Wins and Reconciliations, PIES Focus, Welcome New Members, Prayer Requests, and Technical Help. Private, members-only, and tended by our team every day.
Every Marriage Helper toolkit, unlocked the day you join. Pull the one that fits what's happening, whether that's the Calm Toolkit when you're spinning out, SMART Contact™ when your spouse has pulled away, the Limerence Toolkit when their attention is elsewhere, or the Trust Toolkit when you're ready for the slower work.
Most "online marriage support" is a dead Facebook group, a course you watch alone, or a forum where nobody has posted in months. Here is what we do differently.
Dead Facebook groups. Pre-recorded videos you watch alone. Forums where nobody has posted in months. When the crisis hits, there's no one to call.
Live coach-led support multiple times a week, weekly events with Dr. Joe and Kimberly, and a member team that tends the Community every day.
Looking for 1:1 coaching instead? Marriage Helper Coaching is one-on-one work with our Certified Coaches, the right fit if you want individual support over community support.
Learn more →Over 10,000 spouses have come through Marriage Helper's doors. A few of them, in their own words.
"Being told 'I am not in love with you anymore' is something I don't wish on anyone. This program saved me from spending my days crying in bed. It gave me a plan."
"Lots of great content, powerful strategies. It showed me a totally different approach to my marriage and introduced a different mindset. Absolutely crucial knowledge."
"I got to Marriage Helper because I was desperate. I stay because I am inspired. The principles of the program teach us to do this with integrity."
"Saved a marriage I was SURE I wanted out of."
"Marriage Helper has been a lifeline for me, offering hope in a sea of hopelessness."
This is an honest week. A real schedule of coach-led calls and a community event. The forums run underneath all of it, every hour. Every call is recorded if you can't make it live.
One simple membership. Cancel any time.
If yours isn't here, write us. A real person reads every note.
The Marriage Helper Community is a private membership program for spouses in marriage crisis. Members get coach-led support calls every week, weekly community events, full access to the member forums (moderated by Marriage Helper Certified Coaches and peer mentors), and the complete Marriage Helper toolkit library: The Calm Toolkit, Push & Pull, SMART Contact™, Art of Attraction, The Trust Toolkit, The Limerence Toolkit, The LovePath™ Toolkit, The Boundaries Toolkit, Exploring Reconciliation, The Spark Program, and recovery toolkits for both sides of an affair.
Membership is $99 per month. Cancel any time.
Traditional marriage counseling typically asks both spouses to be present and engaged. The Marriage Helper Community is built for the one spouse trying to save the marriage right now. It complements therapy for many members rather than replacing it.
You get coach-led support every week, member forums for the moments in between, peer mentors who've come through their own crisis, and the toolkit library to use when the situation calls for it.
The Community is built for spouses in marriage crisis. Most members join because their spouse is leaving, is in an affair or in limerence, has withdrawn, or has said "I don't love you anymore." Many are working to save the marriage alone. Some are couples who came through our workshop and want a place to keep doing the work.
Wherever you are in the situation, the Community meets you there.
For most members in crisis, the best first step is the 5-minute assessment. From there, the Community is the lowest-friction entry. You can be on a coach-led call this week and in the forums the same day you join.
If you and your spouse are both willing to attend, the in-person workshop is the highest-leverage thing we offer. The Community is what holds you steady between bigger moves.
No. It runs on a dedicated member platform. Forums, calls, events, and your toolkit library all live in one place. Mobile and web.
The Community is tended by a team of nine: three certified Marriage Helper coaches, three trained moderators, and three peer mentors who have come through a marriage crisis themselves and now hold the door open for the next person. Someone from the team is in the Community every day.
Most members join alone. That's the whole point of the work we teach. One spouse can shift the dynamic. The Community gives you the daily support to actually do the pulls instead of the pushes when you're tired and afraid.
If your spouse later wants to join, their access is included on your account.
Every call is recorded and posted to your member library within 24 hours, with timestamps so you can jump to the topic you need. The forums also run around the clock. You'll still get real value if you only ever use replays and the forums.
Yes. The platform is private and members-only. You can choose your display name. Many members post anonymously. Moderators enforce a strict no-screenshotting, no-sharing rule, and will remove anyone who breaks it.
Yes. Cancel any time, no questions asked. Your access stays active through the end of your paid month, and you won't be charged again.
Yes, members get a standing discount on coaching sessions and the in-person workshop. It's a perk, not the reason to join. The reason to join is the Community itself.
The Community is open. Someone in there is awake right now. Bring whatever question you've been holding.
