Marriage Course: Push Pull Toolkit - Marriage Helper

Marriage Course: Push & Pull Toolkit

Are You Pushing Your Spouse Away? Discover the Hidden Dynamic Quietly Destroying Your Connection

Stop pushing your spouse away. Start pulling them back... today.

Most people think trying harder will fix their marriage… but the truth is, the harder you try, the more distant your spouse becomes. Learn the science behind why and how to finally turn it around.

When You Try to Fix It, They Move Further Away

You talk, explain, and plead, hoping it will bring your spouse closer.
But instead, they retreat. The harder you push, the more they move away.
Soon, love feels one-sided, and you start wondering if it’s even possible to get back what you once had.

It’s Called The Push Pull Dynamic.

What You'll Learn:

The Most Important Principle in Relationships
The Hidden Forces That Shape Every Relationship
Why What You Mean Doesn’t Matter—Only What They Feel
When Pushing Is the Right Thing to Do
Why People Stay—Even When It Hurts
When Something (or Someone) Else Becomes the Pull
The Path to Restoration

TRUSTED BY COUPLES AROUND THE WORLD

MH is such a blessing. I am so grateful I found the program when I did. The principles of the program teach us to walk this journey with integrity. I got to MH because I was desperate. I stay because I am inspired.

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What Will The Push & Pull Toolkit Do For You?

In this 7 video series, Dr. Joe Beam, founder of Marriage Helper, sits down to explain this seemingly simple but revolutionary marriage principle.

Understanding The Push Pull Dynamic:

Why This Works

This isn’t theory—it’s the same principle our coaches and workshop leaders have used to help thousands of couples restore their marriages.
The Push–Pull Dynamic explains nearly every crisis we see, from affairs to apathy.
Once you understand it, you’ll finally stop feeling powerless… and start seeing progress.

The Seven Steps:

This is a 3rd Step Course designed to deepen your understanding of the push / pull concept.

Calm
Down

Gain
Clarity

Stop Pushes
Start Pulls

Forgive &
Reconcile

Build
Trust

Ignite
Passion

Dream
Together

What Makes Marriage Helper Different?

No therapist required. You don’t have to convince your spouse to attend a single session.
No dragging it out. Work at your pace, without endless scheduling or cancellations.
No runaway bills. One payment for lifetime access to this course. That’s less than two hours with most counselors.
No matter what has happened. Affairs. Addiction. Control. Distance. We’ve helped thousands of people in your exact situation.

How Do I Access This?

You Don’t Have to Chase Love. You Just Have to Stop What’s Pushing It Away.

If your marriage feels stuck in a painful cycle—this is your way out.

The Push & Pull Toolkit will change the way you see every conversation, every reaction, and every moment that matters.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: Can I use this if my spouse has left or won’t talk to me?

A: Yes. The Push–Pull Principle works even when communication is limited—it helps you create change by changing your responses first.

Q: How long until I see results?

Many notice shifts in days—sometimes hours—once they stop pushing and start pulling.

Q: Is this based on psychology or faith?

It’s rooted in relationship science, backed by over 30 years of experience helping couples, and aligned with timeless principles of respect, love, and acceptance.

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