The Attraction Blueprint
Would you trade 6 weeks to become the most attractive, confident, and “unshakeable” version of yourself?
The truth is, waiting isn’t a strategy.
Most people in relationship struggles spend their days waiting… Waiting for their spouse to change. Waiting for the “feeling” to come back. Waiting for the “right time” to start feeling like themselves again.
I know how this feels, because I lived it. I had a laundry list of all the ways I wished my husband would change… because if he would just change, then our relationship would be good again. Then, I’d be happy.
And while I was waiting … I started losing myself.
Then, one morning, I found myself crying on my bathroom floor, brokenhearted, again, after another fight. And that’s when it happened. That’s when I decided that I couldn’t live my life this way. I wouldn’t. Not anymore…
The Pivot
Instead of focusing on all the ways I wanted other people to change, I started focusing on changing myself.
And this hasn’t just worked for me, it’s worked for thousands of people that I have taught this exact same principle.
Master Your PIES
The people who actually transform their lives and their relationships do something else: They focus on their PIES. Attraction isn’t a mystery. It’s a science.
Physical
Intellectual
Emotional
Spiritual
They stop trying to control what they can’t (their spouse) and start mastering what they can (themselves).
Because, attraction follows health.
The hardest truth is this: You cannot attract someone back to a version of you that you don’t even like anymore.
Your transformation doesn’t start when your marriage gets better. Your marriage has the best chance of getting better when you start doing something different.
And the craziest thing happened: when I started changing myself (not as a way to get my husband to come back but because I genuinely wanted to be the best version of myself), then it actually DID change my relationship for the better. And it didn’t just change my relationship with my husband, but nearly every relationship in my life.
And I believe the same can happen for you.
I’m Kimberly Beam Holmes
For years, I’ve researched the psychology of what draws people together… and what keeps them there. I even did my PhD research in the field of self-esteem, body esteem, and goal setting to better understand how working on yourself leads to positive change in multiple areas of your life.
The secret isn’t “trying harder” at your marriage. It’s working on your PIES.
When you focus on your Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, and Spiritual attraction, you stop being a person who needs validation and start being a person who radiates confidence. And confidence is the most attractive thing on the planet.
The Year of CALM, CONFIDENCE, and CONNECTION
Here is how we’ll make the next 6 weeks your turning point:
70% of people who set New Year’s Resolutions fail by February. If you try to change everything at once and fail.
We’re going to 80/20 your growth. We will identify the 20% of activities that will give you 80% of your confidence back.
Week 1 - The Simple Goal Setting Strategy
We’ll kick off our time together understanding how to set goals that actually make a difference for your life. In this time, we will actually workshop a 6-week goal strategy for you to start using the next Monday.
Week 2 - The Physical Reset
We’ll design a plan for your energy and vitality that fits your real life (no gym-rat status required).
Week 3 - The Intellectual Spark
We’ll rediscover your curiosity and get your brain out of the "crisis loop" and back into growth.
Week 4 - Emotional Safety (Part 1)
I’ll teach you how to manage your own triggers so you can stay calm when the world feels chaotic.
Week 5 - Emotional Safety (Part 2)
The art of "Evoking Positive Emotions." How to become a person people want to be near.
Week 6 - Spiritual Alignment
Living in line with your values. This is where "unshakeable" confidence is born.
BONUS: The Unshakeable Roadmap
I’ll give you a playbook you can continue to use to build your custom 6-week plan so your PIES stay strong long after our time together ends.
Schedule:
Session 1: January 3, 10am CT
Session 2: January 6, 6:30pm CT
Session 3: January 13, 6:30pm CT
Session 4: January 20, 6:30pm CT
Session 5: January 27, 6:30pm CT
Session 6: February 3, 6:30pm CT
Accelerator Bonuses
Sign up today and get the Comprehensive 6-week PIES Planner and Workbook
- Personal PIES Audit: An assessment to help you clearly see which area of attraction you should be working on right now
- 6 Week PIES Calendar: A 6-week PIES calendar for planning and tracking your goals and progress
- PIES Comprehension Guide: Dedicated deep dive pages for each area of the PIES
- Workshop Recordings: Lifetime access to every session so you can revisit the training whenever you need a boost.
The Attraction Blueprint
LIVE 6-Week Masterclass-
Live Build on Zoom Each Week
Give Me 6 Weeks and I'll Give You:
- A version of yourself you're proud of
- The emotional tools to handle any relationship storm
- The magnetic confidence that comes from being "Wholly You"
Six weeks is going to pass regardless. You can spend them in the same cycle of anxiety, or you can spend them becoming Unshakeable.
This is the exact plan I used to:
- Save my marriage
- Get through my PhD program
- Overcome my anxiety
- And so much more...
That’s why I know it can help you tackle whatever is trying to shake you right now.
The PIES have changed my life, but don’t just take my word for it…
…the PIES has also been a GAME CHANGER for thousands of other people, just like you.
