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What If My Spouse Has Had Multiple Affairs?- The Dr. Joe Show Podcast

By Dr. Joe Beam & Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes
Published  ·  Updated  ·  1 min read

The short answer

Multiple affairs do not automatically mean there is no hope. A spouse who has strayed more than once may be a sex addict or a serial adulterer, but there may be something else going on that can be addressed, and if your spouse has a conscience, it can be fixed. Dr. Joe shares what he has learned from years of working with straying spouses.

Key takeaways

  • More than one affair does not automatically mean your marriage is hopeless or that you need to run.
  • A spouse who strays repeatedly might be a sex addict or serial adulterer, but there may be something else going on that can be addressed, especially if they have a conscience.
  • Dr. Joe draws on years of working with spouses who strayed once, more than once, and many times to explain the causes and possible cures.
  • The episode speaks both to the spouse who strayed and to the standing spouse who wants to save the marriage.

What does it mean, and what do you do, if your spouse has had more than one affair?

Does that indicate there is no hope? That you should end it and get away as fast as you can? Or is it possible to save your marriage…and save your spouse from any further infidelity?

What do multiple affairs say about your spouse? Is s/he a sex addict? Serial adulterer? Maybe. But perhaps there is something else going on that can be addressed and, if you spouse has a conscience, it can be fixed.

In this program Dr. Joe Beam discusses what he has learned by working with straying spouses over the years. The ones who strayed once and never again. The ones who strayed more than once. The ones who strayed many times.

Whether you have strayed…or your spouse has strayed…this will be a program that will give insight and understanding to the causes…and, if you desire, to the cures.

This course was created for the standing spouse. It will give you the tools to create the environment to save your marriage.

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Common questions

Should I leave a spouse who has cheated more than once?

Not before you understand what is driving it. Dr. Joe has worked with spouses who strayed once, more than once, and many times, and this episode looks at the causes behind repeated affairs and, if you desire, the cures.

What can I do if my spouse keeps having affairs?

This program was created for the standing spouse. It gives you the tools to create the environment to save your marriage.

Is this episode helpful if I am the one who strayed?

Yes. Whether you have strayed or your spouse has, Dr. Joe gives insight and understanding into the causes of infidelity and, if you desire, the cures.

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