Maybe you’ve found yourself in the situation where your spouse hates you and is not willing to work on the marriage. Or maybe they have told you it – saying hurtful things like “they can’t wait to divorce you so they can be away from you”. They are angry and pushing you away, or what can feel worse – ignoring you completely.
You can’t understand how someone who once treated you so well, can now treat you so badly. You still love him or her and don’t want to lose your marriage. You feel hopeless, like things are too far gone.
I’m so sorry you are experiencing this, I know it really hurts, I want you to know that you are not alone. Here at Marriage Helper, we work with thousands of marriages in your exact situation every year. We have researched a lot about hate and want to help you understand it and find a different way of thinking about your situation, to find hope that your marriage can be restored.