Is It About Withholding Love?

SMART Contact isn’t about withholding love… It’s about demonstrating love in a way that doesn’t push your straying spouse further away. (It also doesn’t give the impression that even though they’re doing something very wrong, it’s okay with you.)

This is why we continue to believe that SMART Contact is best! Why? Because anything you do that appears to your spouse as controlling, manipulating, whining, begging, etc., has a very strong chance of working against you.